Be careful what you ask for. My wife/mistress was almost embarrassed the first time She put on the strap-on. And the first pegging was brief and gentle. Now, She picks costumes that go with Her chosen dildo, thinks bigger is better, brags that She has the big dick, dances in front of me with the dick flopping around and legs me however She pleases - from tender to viscous. She is in charge and loves Her dick. So do I.